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Having a Baby *The First Step*

  • Жарияланды 2022 ж. 26 Нау.

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  • Annie B
    Annie B  Жыл бұрын +3979

    I just wanted to say, as an adopted kid, whatever way your baby comes to you they’re yours. Dna or blood doesn’t matter as soon as that baby is in your arms they’re yours. I wish you nothing but the best in your journey to parenthood

    • Annie B
      Annie B 4 ай бұрын

      @Maria Neighbor ♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • Maria Neighbor
      Maria Neighbor 4 ай бұрын

      As someone who was raised by my grandparents, whom i am not event blood related to because my absentee dad was adopted, yes!!!

    • Chris Shoemaker
      Chris Shoemaker 7 ай бұрын

      Adopted here too as are 6 of my siblings, totally agree with that statement! ❤️

    • Britt Lynn
      Britt Lynn 8 ай бұрын

      I would feel so shitty about myself if I was adopted.

    • Roland Deschain
      Roland Deschain 9 ай бұрын

      No it's not true science does not agree

  • Ivy_Caine
    Ivy_Caine  Жыл бұрын +887

    Can we appreciate how calm Ryland is when Shane is freaking out 😂

  • Katelyn Lefebvre
    Katelyn Lefebvre 11 ай бұрын +608

    As someone that’s had two miscarriages and still trying to have a baby I love that you guys are putting your whole heart and souls into your baby. You’re going to be amazing dads🥺💛

    • Liz Zy
      Liz Zy 10 ай бұрын +3

      Condolences on your two little stars ✨❤️ hope you will be blessed with a healthy baby 🤗

    • Debi loves designing 💗💍
      Debi loves designing 💗💍 11 ай бұрын +4

      Hope u get a healthy baby❤️

    • The First Face
      The First Face 11 ай бұрын +26

      Condolences on your two losses Katelyn, sending you baby dust as you keep trying, I’m sure you will have heard many reassuring stories throughout your research and recovery, while you searched for the strength to keep going but third time was lucky for me and hopefully for you too, I have a healthy 4 year old now and I wish for you to be able to say the same 5 years down the line from now! Keep your hopes high, you are surrounded by women who have had multiple losses that didn’t indicate inability to carry to term, I hope that’s true for you too. All the best and again, rest in peace to your little ones and your heavy heart! ❤️‍🩹

  • Kristi Louise
    Kristi Louise  Жыл бұрын +639

    I'm cracking up when Shane is saying "I don't think I had to really compromise on anything " as he has a green and white sweatshirt tied around his head so Ryland can eat his food and do the video lol!!!

    • Dawn Combs
      Dawn Combs 7 ай бұрын

      That’s hilarious lol….and I thought the same but it’s sweet he doesn’t look at like a compromise

    • Delcet
      Delcet 11 ай бұрын +4

      Omg this comment cracked me up 😆😆

    • Heather M
      Heather M  Жыл бұрын +3


    • Alexis Strother
      Alexis Strother  Жыл бұрын +3

      Same 😂

  • Mymomcallsmejbird
    Mymomcallsmejbird  Жыл бұрын +218

    After crying for a hour today over my own infertility, I saw this video, wow guys I’m so proud of you, I don’t know why it makes me so much happier today to know that two amazing people are having a little bundle of joy together. Hopefully we can all be just as happy one day

    • Mymomcallsmejbird
      Mymomcallsmejbird 11 ай бұрын +2

      @The First Face thank you omg I almost cried reading your comment

    • The First Face
      The First Face 11 ай бұрын +6

      Sending you peace Jennifer! Whatever happens may you find peace in it and uncontainable joy in your future from whatever source you are blessed with!

    • Matilda Broughton
      Matilda Broughton 11 ай бұрын +8

      you can do this, don’t give up on yourself!

  • ahenry1313
    ahenry1313 11 ай бұрын +52

    I’m adopted from Guatemala and I’m so thankful to have been given another chance at life. I’ve never ever once questioned if my current family is my family. It’s who loves you and raises you. Whoever is suppose to be your baby will find their way to you 🤍

    • Andrea White
      Andrea White 11 ай бұрын +5

      I am also from Guatemala too

  • Kaylyn Falcon
    Kaylyn Falcon  Жыл бұрын +5060

    Can’t wait to see Morgan be an aunt

    • Roland Deschain
      Roland Deschain 9 ай бұрын

      Man can never become mom,grandma,aunt etc

    • C S
      C S 11 ай бұрын

      Yeah shes getting the coop all ready for them lmao.

    • Kassandra D
      Kassandra D 11 ай бұрын

      That child is going to have a million aunties 💕 but Morgan is #1 of course

    • Hanna Elise Wilson
      Hanna Elise Wilson  Жыл бұрын


  • JoyfulBelle
    JoyfulBelle  Жыл бұрын +207

    Shane being sassy with a sweater tied around his head, but being embarrassed of the “I’ll have what he’s having,” challenge is the exact chaotic energy I needed today.

  • Crafty Loops
    Crafty Loops 11 ай бұрын +11

    Shane is embarrassed to go through the drivethru whilst Ryland asks for the order in front, but is perfectly fine going through the drivethru with a jumper tied around his head looking like a scene straight out of Bridget Jones Diary! Ahhhhh I'm screaming. I love Shane, so so funny. Lee xx

  • Lashawn Stutz
    Lashawn Stutz  Жыл бұрын +174

    Being adopted I obviously love when people are open to adoption and other routes to having a baby. I can’t express enough how amazing it is. I know I’m not biologically related to my parents but I’m just like them (the good and the bad lol). You’re going to love that baby so much before you even meet them or hold them the first time ❤️

    • Courtney
      Courtney 11 ай бұрын +1

      they should look into adoptee trauma before adopting

    • EducatorAlly
      EducatorAlly  11 ай бұрын

      What age were you adopted?

  • Regina Machamer
    Regina Machamer 9 ай бұрын +13

    Imagine being the McDonald's employee walking out to the car with their stuff only to see 2 grown men playing with happy meal toys in front of a camera by themselves 😂😂😂 I love you guys

  • Sarah King
    Sarah King 2 ай бұрын +1

    as i was growing up my family would casually mention that i was adopted and what it meant. that’s also a good way to explain to your kid how they came to be and the process you guys went through🖤

  • Regina Machamer
    Regina Machamer  Жыл бұрын +994

    I cannot wait to see how Ryland designs the nursery 😭

  • Rebecca Channell
    Rebecca Channell 11 ай бұрын +56

    I’ve seen a lot of the negative opinions on you guys having this baby; I pray they don’t even hit you and Shane’s radar. Honestly, you guys would be the best Dads a kid could ever ask for, and already are to Uno, Cheeto, and Honey.❤️ Most of the “haters” are just jealous because you two know the true meaning of love and family. I hope the negative comments dont keep you guys from talking about the process because I’m literally so excited for you guys! I want to see the happy tears so I can cry with yall! I’m sending all the love and support for you guys though this stressful and long process!

  • Anna Marie
    Anna Marie 4 ай бұрын +2

    from watching you two for YEARS of my life, i truly feel you two are going to be amazing parents. it makes me so happy

  • Lia Cameron
    Lia Cameron 11 ай бұрын +28

    I love seeing how much thought and effort you guys are putting into having a baby 💙 I’m currently 20 weeks after trying for 3 years and losing 4 babies. We tried medication, signed up for ivf and talked about fostering and adopting, so it’s been a rough road. I’m wishing you guys so much love and hope on the future baby/family 💜

    • FFGs Lawyer
      FFGs Lawyer 11 ай бұрын +2

      May you have a healthy pregnancy and a speedy and safe delivery..
      Good vibes sent to you❤

    • Who Knows
      Who Knows 11 ай бұрын +2

      Ahh good vibes to you and your family!

  • Jessica De Jesus
    Jessica De Jesus 11 ай бұрын +23

    I'm so glad you two are back!!! Shane, I'm literally just like you. Something happens & for weeks I'm like "I hope they don't think I'm a bitch" 😂 I know you guys will be great dads!

  • frodo
    frodo  Жыл бұрын +814

    Mariella is the real MVP of the video. It must be nice to meet someone in real life who follows your content and shows genuine interest in what’s going on. What a sweet woman!

    • Tinyhouse Off-grid Life Starring Adorable pets
      Tinyhouse Off-grid Life Starring Adorable pets  Жыл бұрын +22

      Ik Mariella knew about Colorado and they got nervous and forgot the toys. Very sweet Vlog, maybe even one of the best. And Shane im a female and have zero reproductive organs , Im fine with it! Just be happy dads !! Love4eva

  • Steven Rush
    Steven Rush 11 ай бұрын +17

    My dad is adopted so this is extra special to me, but I just wanted to say how Sweet it is that you can be openly yourself no matter how flamboyant that may be, in front of your grandmother. It speaks volumes of her character. Your family is just incredible

  • Hannah
    Hannah 11 ай бұрын +18

    Oh my good I had no idea that Shane has Misophonia I do as well and it is so cool that he isn’t afraid to hide it also love both of you and really hope everything goes well with having a baby you will be such great dads

  • Audelia Trahan
    Audelia Trahan  Жыл бұрын +31

    So proud of you two ! Shane's videos almost raised me and literally taught me english. I remember being 14 and watching his videos not understanding half of it. Now i'm an english teacher.
    it's wonderful to see how far you've come together. Love you

  • Kallen Briana
    Kallen Briana 11 ай бұрын +4

    Shane is literally genuinely hilarious and I love it 😍 I could never hate you!

  • Mslatitude
    Mslatitude 4 ай бұрын +1

    Love you guys! Ryland has matured alot and Shane has become so much more dramatic. I like the challenges you do, its fun.

  • Tara1016
    Tara1016  Жыл бұрын +1664

    So incredibly happy you and Shane have officially started the process of becoming Dads and so excited to start this amazing journey to fatherhood with you both today 😭❤

  • Cynthia Russell
    Cynthia Russell 11 ай бұрын +46

    I’m like Shane I hate being put in awkward situations and even hate watching people in awkward situations. So I get your pain!

  • Amber Elizabeth
    Amber Elizabeth  Жыл бұрын +57

    “You made us more hateable.”
    “You’re the worst it’s your fault.”
    So relateable even in the best relationships we gotta talk some shit to eachother 😂❤️

  • Bethany Gayle
    Bethany Gayle 11 ай бұрын +24

    I like how Shane is so scared of being awkward and embarrassed and then when someone is complimenting him and Ryland like Mariella was, which is usually hard for people to hear and accept, he goes in to full blow people person! Lol you shouldn’t beat yourself up so much Shane!

  • crafterone1
    crafterone1 11 ай бұрын +4

    As someone who is adopted I just want to say thank you I know you're going to give the child a loving home

  • Melrose_9327
    Melrose_9327  Жыл бұрын +13

    I love Chandler! You can call them Charlie too for a girl. So cute. 🥰 Whatever you name them and however you have them, they will be blessed to have you both as parents. 💜

  • Sarah🔥
    Sarah🔥  Жыл бұрын +590

    I deadass started crying fr, I have been watching Shane for literally 10 years... I am so happy and proud of the both of you making this commitment together! I love you guys so much and I hope the baby is happy and healthy 💗

    • Zera Katerina
      Zera Katerina  Жыл бұрын +2

      I literally wrote this. You copied and pasted exactly what I said.

    • Georgia Rainbow
      Georgia Rainbow  Жыл бұрын +1

      Same! Watching them do this is so special 🥺

    • Deez nuts
      Deez nuts  Жыл бұрын

      @SleepAwayTheDay lol love this comment

    • Anahi Hernandez
      Anahi Hernandez  Жыл бұрын +2

      Same im here since 10 years ago i love you guys we know who you are

    • Andreia Langton
      Andreia Langton  Жыл бұрын +2

      Frfr 😭

  • Brianna Allan
    Brianna Allan 11 ай бұрын +21

    My wife and I had to do it through a clinic since we’re both women and I can’t get her pregnant.She is due at the end of June!I can’t wait to see you guys become parents!!!

  • Rebekah Walsh
    Rebekah Walsh 11 ай бұрын +6

    Couldn’t be more happy for you both. That is going to be one blessed, loved and treasured baby with you both as parents. Thanks for including us in this beautiful journey x❤️

  • The Outcast Gamerz
    The Outcast Gamerz 11 ай бұрын +2

    I actually had two beautiful girls and I decided I wanted to help a couple have a baby so I think you guys are doing this it’s amazing

  • Erin
    Erin 10 ай бұрын +1

    Thank you both for giving a shout out to women who cannot have babies on their own. I suffer from PCOS and I myself, cannot get pregnant. Not to mention too many health issues to count that would be passed down to the baby and make it a high risk pregnancy. I just thought it was very considerate to mention that even women have issues. And however you both get your baby, I think it's really awesome and best luck in the future!

  • xkindnessencex
    xkindnessencex 11 ай бұрын

    i just wanted to make sure to let y'all know i am incredibly proud and happy for you both

  • Ashleigh Nadine Plourde
    Ashleigh Nadine Plourde  Жыл бұрын +505

    As a donor myself, it's kind of interesting hearing the intended parents side of it and i think hearing this has made it even more rewarding. I'm so happy for you two and I cannot wait to watch you guys be parents! ♡

    • Ashleigh Nadine Plourde
      Ashleigh Nadine Plourde 11 ай бұрын +3

      @CATS WITH KYLA I donated my egg, so just my DNA really. Its not a fertilized egg and would otherwise just end up dying when I have my period. So when they take it from me, they fertilize it with whomever the intended parents wish, could be themselves like Ryan and Shane are doing or could be another donor.
      I could never give up my own baby, but an egg is not a baby. I'd like to do Surrogacy one day as well, but not with my own egg (carry someone else's child).

      CATS WITH KYLA 11 ай бұрын +1

      @Ashleigh Nadine Plourde what are you talking about donate a egg? Or have you had a baby for someone? I seriously have no idea how a women can be pregnant and then just give it away it is insane to me

    • Ashleigh Nadine Plourde
      Ashleigh Nadine Plourde  Жыл бұрын +1

      @Lucy Honeychurch and yes they tell you all about the risks and chances of them happening and how they will help if it does happen.

    • Ashleigh Nadine Plourde
      Ashleigh Nadine Plourde  Жыл бұрын +1

      @Lucy Honeychurch no one conditioned me into doing anything. This is something I wanted to do for myself because I almost needed someone to donate to me, when my health improved and I was able to donate I made the decision to do so.
      Hyper stimulation syndrome can happen but it's not a high risk and there's treatment for it.

  • Gabriella Royale
    Gabriella Royale  Жыл бұрын +8

    AHHHHHH YESSSSS as an adopted child this video has made me so happy watching y’all go through the process of becoming DADDIES AHHHH

  • DatzJude
    DatzJude 6 ай бұрын +1

    I love that Shane was so embarrassed the first time, and then wrapped a sweatshirt around his head on the other one😂

  • Vera Faria
    Vera Faria 11 ай бұрын +7

    Mariela made me cry. How cute and emotional that interaction 😱😍♥️

  • Brianna Peters
    Brianna Peters 11 ай бұрын +1

    this is why i love u guys 😭 made me tear up so much !! can’t wait to see you guys as dads 💚💚

  • Angie Flowers
    Angie Flowers  Жыл бұрын +16

    I love how Ryland gets Shane to talk a lot then secretly eats. My husband does it to me when I go on tangents about cool things I like.

  • Erin
    Erin  Жыл бұрын +6

    Congratulations!!! Ive been watching you guys for years, Shane since i was a middle schooler and its so good to see yall happy and starting a little family🥺 best of luck w everything

  • Megan Wozniak
    Megan Wozniak  Жыл бұрын

    I relate to Shane so much and the missophonia it’s actually the worst being in a quiet car with no music or anything while someone eats you’re not alone Shane lol

  • frankie stein
    frankie stein 10 ай бұрын

    I grew up with you two and now this baby will too and thats just so lovely, congrats shane and ryland

  • Briana Magana
    Briana Magana  Жыл бұрын +457

    I’m dying at ryland carefully eating the chicken nugget while Shane is talking

    • Clara Dodson
      Clara Dodson  Жыл бұрын

      Sorry I meant how lol haha.

    • Clara Dodson
      Clara Dodson  Жыл бұрын

      @Michelle Foord **haw

    • Clara Dodson
      Clara Dodson  Жыл бұрын

      Are you kidding me? did we even watch the same video?? the mere FACT that you could find a way to make this momentous achievement a laughing matter and proceed to publicly humiliate and ridicule rylands nervous tendencies as a upcoming father, absolutely revolts me.

    • Michelle Foord
      Michelle Foord  Жыл бұрын +1

      @Ellie Reg same hate hate it when people eat off bones and hate the scraping on then plate and the scraping metal on metal at the lips smacking when eating and when you see what people are eating when they are eating their food and when they do not chew there food they swoll there food hate all of that as well

    • Ellie Reg
      Ellie Reg  Жыл бұрын

      At first I didn’t get the chewing thing but I hate when ppl eat off bones! Lol 😂 and I hate anything scraping metal on metal. It’s almost like a pain and very annoying feeling !

  • Desire Fincke
    Desire Fincke  Жыл бұрын +5

    Want to start off with love you two to death. My partner and I have been trying over three years. I understand the sadness behind it. I actually was just diagnosed with pcos and just knowing finding out more and more about me and my issues. Sending yall love threw your journey. It will all be worth it.

  • ally m.
    ally m.  Жыл бұрын

    I swear shane and I are the same person, we’re both cancers with anxiety & misophonia 😂 every time you plug your ears I relate SO hard! Also, I just wanted to say I’m an egg donor (IVF) baby. My mom has always told me how hard it was for her not to be able to get pregnant on her own, but now, neither of us hardly ever remember that I’m not biologically hers. I know you all will make such a beautiful family together no matter how it comes to be! Rooting for you all and wishing you the best ❤️

  • Christine Benitez
    Christine Benitez 11 ай бұрын +3

    oh man I love you two so much! I wish it was as easy as volunteering as tribute for anyone who wanted to have a child and was unable to themselves. I love being pregnant, I love the whole process! I always have a lot of guilt when I tell people how easy of a time I have being pregnant and delivering babies! I would 100% help anyone I could!!

  • Tara Fraser
    Tara Fraser 11 ай бұрын +2

    I'm so excited for you guys to be dads! Also, thank you guys for answering my question! 🥰

  • Theo's cakes
    Theo's cakes  Жыл бұрын

    I am so happy that you are going to be a little family one day. This is what I am here for you will make amazing dads

  • Chelsey
    Chelsey  Жыл бұрын +176

    Ryland and Shane are perfect for each other and it looks like they truly make each other happy. They deserve one another and all the happiness. Shane found the right person 💕💕

  • Mallorie
    Mallorie 11 ай бұрын +1

    I legit can 100% watch and listen while you two converse all day! Love you both! And i am very excited for your new adventures to come with regards to being new parents! As I was typing this, Shane starts belting out "I will always love you", from Whitney Houston!!! Haha this is precisely why I can be entertained by you for all day! Lmao 🤣 💘🥰🔥😍
    Loving the vlogs Ryland!! 😍 🤓🙏💌

  • Danica Sotelo
    Danica Sotelo  Жыл бұрын +1

    Watching Shane and ryland makes me so happy! I wish I could just spend a day with them they seem like so much fun!

  • Doll Clique
    Doll Clique  Жыл бұрын +1

    Love you guys. Ryland is the most amazing person I could write a whole book on how he inspires me. He's a sweet magical being. Shane you bring so much life to a room.. in a great way. You express a lot of things I may be feeling..for example when you went through the drive-through lol.

  • Josie T
    Josie T  Жыл бұрын +3

    So happy for y'all. Hope everything goes well!

  • Katie Burns
    Katie Burns 11 ай бұрын

    I can't relate to Shane because I can't handle certain eating noises. It's a struggle because it does seem extra but it's a real problem. Best of luck with your future baby! So excited for you both 💕

  • Bethany jade
    Bethany jade  Жыл бұрын +163

    i’m 16 years old and i’ve been watching shane for as long as i remember. my sister watched him since he started and she’s now 27 , so i’ve grown up with him. seeing him and ryland grow and hearing this news made me so emotional. you all are going to be amazing parents. thank you for everything!

  • Casey Peck
    Casey Peck  Жыл бұрын

    So excited for you guys on your baby journey.

  • AricaRanae
    AricaRanae 11 ай бұрын +1

    You guys definitely should check out A Host Of Possibilities from Boise, Idaho. They are amazing. I was a surrogate through there and birth a healthy set of twin boys through them for a daddy. It was so fulfilling and rewarding to give a family to someone who couldn't. They smiles on the Daddy's face was just amazing! I hope what ever you choose to do makes you both happy.

  • Meghan Corbett
    Meghan Corbett 2 ай бұрын

    OMG Shanes anxiety for the drive thru thing is exactly how I would act and I was getting secondhand embarrassment just watching and him ordering 😂😂😂😂 I couldn't do it Shane!

  • Marta Zaklikowska
    Marta Zaklikowska 10 ай бұрын

    I'm soooo excited for you both😄

  • Tara1016
    Tara1016  Жыл бұрын +381

    When Shane said he will be thinking about the McDonald's employee misinterpreting what he said for two weeks I felt that in my BONES!!!!

    • Kat Webb
      Kat Webb  Жыл бұрын +1

      @Sarah Austin Same here lol 😅

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      Kaelyn  Жыл бұрын


    • Kayla G
      Kayla G  Жыл бұрын

      Omg same 🤣

    • Sarah Austin
      Sarah Austin  Жыл бұрын +2

      I have severe ADHD so I definitely related to this as well lol

    • Kass Gaxiola
      Kass Gaxiola  Жыл бұрын +4

      I’m the exact same way!

  • Laura Haynes
    Laura Haynes 11 ай бұрын +2

    Congratulations guys this kid will have a fun and great life you guys are gonna do great!

  • Pinupbenelli
    Pinupbenelli 11 ай бұрын +1

    I am a mother of a 12 years old wonderful, well behaved boy! And a mother of a 2 year old baby girl ... I had 5 miscarriages, very complicated, a long journey, but there's always a happy end, even if it takes years! Sometimes it just takes time, tears, faith, love and above all patience.... 💗

  • Kayla Marie
    Kayla Marie  Жыл бұрын

    I am also adopted, and while they will have questions and wonder many things, you will ALWAYS be their parents. You CHOSE them, and they will appreciate that forever. Best wishes to you both!

  • Shawnee Schuler
    Shawnee Schuler 11 ай бұрын

    I love you two 🥰 every video you two make me laugh with tears. My favorites in the whole world 💛

  • D A
    D A 10 ай бұрын

    I loved this Vlog.😭😭 I was laughing the entire time, definitely one of my most favorites that you’ve done! Simple but so entertaining and sweet 🥲

  • Redrumx.garage
    Redrumx.garage  Жыл бұрын +163

    This is the *MOST REAL* I’ve seen you guys and open instead of holding things back. Loved Shane completely in this and helped me understand him more. More of this 💛💛💛💛👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • Audrey Upchurch
    Audrey Upchurch 11 ай бұрын +1

    Not Shane looking like an old lady going for her walk in the park with that jacket around his head and the sunglasses. Also I am very excited for you guys to have a child. I am so excited to see you two become parents. You both are going to be awesome parents. Love you both so much!

  • Sara Webb
    Sara Webb  Жыл бұрын

    I'm so happy for you guys! Whatever decision you make is wonderful :) I would like to say that adoption is an amazing option and has the power to change a baby's life in such a positive way. There are always many babies who need homes. If you're interested in adoption but don't know where to begin, I would just call around to some local adoption agencies and talk to them about it! Feel free to ask them any questions you'd like, there's no pressure at all. They can help you weigh pros and cons of the process and decide if it's right for you. Source: Both my siblings are adopted and my mom has worked for adoption agencies for decades.❤

  • CrazeeAunt
    CrazeeAunt 11 ай бұрын

    Love the car vlog! As someone who went through fertility treatments…Use both and let the Fertility Specialist decide. Do you really need/want to know which one they used? You’ll have a beautiful baby that is truly loved and it won’t matter which DNA is used because that isn’t what makes you a parent. Love, nurturing, teaching…So much more. I’m so happy for both of you!!! I can’t wait to see your family grow!!! 💜💜💜

  • Mae Rosemary
    Mae Rosemary  Жыл бұрын

    Hell yeah, I love ya'll. If things get scary don't worry, it's pretty much guaranteed to worry and no one knows if they're ready. You'll be awesome parents.

    • Mae Rosemary
      Mae Rosemary  Жыл бұрын

      Also I have misophonia too and literally wanted to cry when you ate a nugget but it's also funny that I covered my ears too also I am drunk darn I thought phobias went away hammered cry emoji anyway bye heart

  • Georgia Fordham
    Georgia Fordham 11 ай бұрын +1

    I’m so happy for you guys!

  • Mona-gail Best
    Mona-gail Best  Жыл бұрын +645

    When doing it with a donor egg they gather several at the same time. Then they can use both of your specimens to fertilizer the eggs, they also can implant as many as you want, within reason. So they can do both and you get what you get no one would have to know. After all it will be yours no matter the donors. Its not the donors or the sperm that make a good parents, its the love and attention. You Two will be the greatest parents. If there was a place were the unborn could pick their parents you two would have already shaped up. I'm so happy for you and your venture into Parenthood.

    • Brandi Ruble
      Brandi Ruble 5 ай бұрын

      @Kyla cool glad you do.

    • Yahir Sepulveda
      Yahir Sepulveda 5 ай бұрын

      @Brandi Ruble It’s a common misconception that you need the traditional mom figure AND father figure to grow up in a good environment or to be “ loved “ properly. You can have either or. Titles are appropriate.

    • Kyla
      Kyla 5 ай бұрын

      @Brandi Ruble I like that, “giver” rather than “donor”. Thanks :)

    • Brandi Ruble
      Brandi Ruble 5 ай бұрын

      @Kyla scientific term is zygote for egg. Think using word donor been over used for decades. The term giver is more endearing to use for this medical procedure. Since the begining for human species females have always been givers from view point of communities various in clans, tribes, and heritage in the world. Helped process of birth/life , cared for growth, and confronted ended passing in death, which are cycles of life.

    • Brandi Ruble
      Brandi Ruble 5 ай бұрын

      @Yahir Sepulveda nor a Father either by same concept. Why do need to use titles? Think about all amazing humans who identify as Trans, gender fluild, non-binary and others in society.

  • Marta Zaklikowska
    Marta Zaklikowska 10 ай бұрын

    P.S. my partner also has mysyphonia ( don't mind my spelling ) and I understand the struggles and the feelings that come with on both sides its not easy I must say as you guys know you work through it. I'm so in love with him as you guys have too

  • San Juan Perez
    San Juan Perez  Жыл бұрын

    Love you guys, but it doesn't matter what the child looks like, its the love that you are going to give it that counts. You are awesome people and I think that will make you great parents. Good lluck and I hope everything goes well.

  • witchyzee
    witchyzee 2 ай бұрын

    I wish you two the best.

  • Percy powers
    Percy powers 8 ай бұрын

    Dude, as someone who has the same disorder as Shane, I literally couldn't stop laughing at the car eating. It was so relatable for me and made me shed tears of laughter. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • HeyYouYeahYou
    HeyYouYeahYou  Жыл бұрын +379

    Is this the moment we’ve all been waiting for!? You both are such amazing people, this is going to be the luckiest and most loved child alive 🥰 I’m so excited for y’all! Ahhhh!! 🖤

  • Sacura Shadow
    Sacura Shadow  Жыл бұрын

    Wish you guys the best. Hope everything works out for you guys.

  • Melissa Sanchez
    Melissa Sanchez  Жыл бұрын +1

    Awe can’t wait to see you both as dads!! We miss you guys in Colorado btw 😃

  • Tree Trunks
    Tree Trunks 11 ай бұрын

    So happy for you guys and this beautiful princess you’re going through!!!

  • wh0reForHobi
    wh0reForHobi 11 ай бұрын

    Within all the many years I’ve been a fan of Shane, I never knew he had Misophonia!
    I’m not happy about it but, as someone who also has Misophonia, it’s so nice to see I’m not alone lol
    It’s seriously so torturous sometimes, and can be so detrimental to relationships and social life etc. But I wanted to share some things that help me if I’m forced to eat with people etc.
    Wearing headphones is an absolute life saver, but can be so embarrassing in public. But it is my main thing to help.
    Anxiety medication also really helped me not get so overwhelmed by emotions, because it literally dulled my emotions in a way lmao
    Playing music in the background, especially in cars or just in the house can be so helpful
    If people around you are willing to help, it can be so nice to have people cover their mouths while they chew with their hand or a napkin. It’s surprisingly blocks out the sound so well.
    For me, when eating with people I like to eat slower. This usually makes me the last person eating, which helps because the sounds of my own chewing can help redirect my focus and cover up any other sounds. If I happen to finish my food, I always just force myself to eat more til everyone is done. Also, eating loud things like chips etc. really helps.
    Uhh I can’t think of anything else off the top of my head. But if all else fails just leave💀

  • Megan Burke
    Megan Burke  Жыл бұрын

    Awe Mariella!!!! Adore her, and adored this moment!!!! Shane, it is so sad to see how life can be sometimes for you - the anxiety and what it can do! What is insane is that is how I have been for literal years and never knew what this was! I love you both!! I hope you read this comment instead of those negative ugly ones - the world has enough of that BS in it......we need diamonds like you both!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰 so happy to see you in the video's again!!!

  • Samantha
    Samantha  Жыл бұрын +194

    I love when Ryan eats. He savors every bite. He could make a fruitcake look delicious. Shane is so lucky to have him. ❤️

  • Brenda Goldd
    Brenda Goldd  Жыл бұрын

    So happy for the both of you!🍼🧸

  • Kathy Werschky
    Kathy Werschky 11 ай бұрын

    You guys are awesome! I love you guys so much!💜💜

  • Chelsea D'Atri
    Chelsea D'Atri 11 ай бұрын +6

    Good luck on your baby journey! My wife and I are currently trying and I definitely know how you feel about not being able to have a baby together! Sending you guy love and good luck

  • hellen vasquez
    hellen vasquez 11 ай бұрын

    Loved the video! Love u guys taking that step forward to parenthood and thanks for leaving the Mariella bit in there ❤️🙌🏼 was very sweet tbh to see how u guys interacted with her!

  • Kate McLeod
    Kate McLeod 11 ай бұрын

    These vlogs are so much fun! I love this style, Ryland.

  • Sarah🔥
    Sarah🔥  Жыл бұрын +260

    I love how you guys are incorporating us into your fertility journey! I am an embryologist in Colorado and so I cant wait to see how it goes!! ❤

  • Kayla K
    Kayla K 11 ай бұрын

    I love seeing people love you. Ah! God bless yinz both xoxo

  • Sarah & Luke
    Sarah & Luke 11 ай бұрын

    So excited for you guys! ❤️

  • TheLuvjonze
    TheLuvjonze 11 ай бұрын

    I absolutely loved this vlog! Bless up to Miss Mariella! What a sweet sweet angel ❤️

  • Jackie G
    Jackie G  Жыл бұрын

    Congrats!! So happy to see you guys move on 💓

  • Gabriella Gonzalez
    Gabriella Gonzalez  Жыл бұрын

    So excited for you guys! You guys are gonna be amazing dads ! 💜

  • missypyxi
    missypyxi  Жыл бұрын +229

    The way Ryland ever-so-carefully chewed his chicken nugget while Shane was talking. 😂🥰

  • Kohana Moonwater
    Kohana Moonwater  Жыл бұрын

    My wife and I wish you both the best of luck, truly!

  • Carrie Rainbow
    Carrie Rainbow  Жыл бұрын

    I absolutely love this video. I think it’s my favorite one that either of you have done. Bravo, kind sirs!

  • Helenea Roberts
    Helenea Roberts  Жыл бұрын

    This makes my heart happy. There is no wrong way to become parents. Just know this parenting shit is HARD!